Thursday, February 22, 2007
Emo feeling
It's strange to see those photos again and experienced the same feeling that i once felt when i first saw them. Sometimes you will ask yourself over and over again why you're feeling this way. But eventually you yourself might not know the answer. Instead more questions might appear. No matter how deep your love for each other was in the past, it doesn't matter now. All was in the past. The past has become a recollection of memories. No point lamenting on it as there's no turning back.
My auntie is currently filing a divorce as she no longer can tolerate my uncle who has been doing so many things that have hurt her. But my mum is persuading her not to do so and to give my uncle 1 last chance to turn over a new leaf. My mum told me we should give everyone a chance to change to be a better person. No one is born 100% perfect. Everyone has it owns flaws. So everyone deserves a chance to change for the better isn't? We can't condemn the person without giving him a chance to change. It takes time for a person to change but as long as he has the determination and perseverance , he will definitely make it. So why deprive the person of that chance. If you really love the person, you will definitely give him another chance because you do not want him to suffer in the future.
This also applies in a relationship. There will definitely be a time when the r/s is at its lowest point. This is the time that is testing how strong the r/s is. Couples break up for many different reasons but usually when break-ups do occur, 1 of the couple usually ask for a reconcile. It is at this point of time when we ask ourselves whether we want a reconcile. It really hurts to break-up, so why mentioned it in the first place? Why place you and your partner in a difficult and painful situation? There are many ways to solve the problem and initiating a break-up is not the best way to do it. You can discuss it calmly with the person and tell him/her that you truly want him/her to change. Don't be afraid to tell. The worst thing is not to tell.
Friends can suddenly be lovers and then enemies. You'll always recall those sweet memories you had with that person but when reality strikes you, you realised that this person is no longer there for you. He has already become a stranger. You'll find it hard to accept the truth but there's nothing we can do about it. He exists now only in my memory.
Enough of my emo feelings. Can't believe i still have the energy to type this out. I'm going to sleep this time. For real.
think again. 9:48 PM
